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Sorry, I canāt get that song out of my head now since I typed What is love?
Seriously though, what is love?
My son had his Valentineās party this year. He had a great time, but he was confused as to why someone gave him an orange among all of the traditional Valentineās candy that he received. I told him that was their Valentine to him. His response? āOh, they showinā their loveā. I laughed and responded yes.
And it got me to thinking
ā what is love? And how do we show it?
With all relationships, they can hit a rough patch. Because truthfully, relationships take work ā lots of work and not just romantic relationships, but friendships, relationships with our family, our church, and the list goes on and on.
And we all know that love is subjective, with a lot of different meanings. And Iāll be honest, most of my life I have
This year? Well this year I could care less. I bought me a box of candy a week or so ago (and ate it one afternoon while Lil Man napped). Honestly, once or twice a year, I just like a box of assorted chocolates. So instead of trying to subconsciously try to tell Hubby or hint to my husband to buy me a box for Valentineās day, I simply bought myself a box and enjoyed them one afternoon over a peaceful nap.
Will Hubby get me anything this year for Valentineās day? I donāt know. And I can honestly for the first time ever say that I truly donāt care.
So what is love?
For me, it changes form as I change through the stages of my life.
Itās giving my son a hug or a kiss, a āgood jobā, encouragement, confidence, patience as we clean up yet another mess, time out of my day, and snuggles while watching a movie. But at this point, most of all, itās letting him know that I am always there for him and that I do love him unconditionally.
Sometimes love is the simple daily things in life ā such as warming up a taco for your spouse so that they donāt have to get up and do it themselves. Sometimes itās hauling a bucket of coal up a flight of stairs so that Hubby wonāt have to do it once heās home even if I did spill it and didn't exactly load the coal in right. He appreciated my effort.
Itās my Hubby cleaning the snow off of my car so that I wonāt have to, or him giving me a few extra minutes to get a workout in because he knows how important it is to me, or him putting our son to bed because he knows that I have work to do and that it would allow us to have some time together later.
It's also taking time for yourself, and loving yourself and who you are. But this week especially I have found that for me currently Love is when you put someone else first without expecting anything in return.
Happy Valentine's Day everyone!
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Today it was my hubs fixing my stethoscope so I don't have to buy a new one. I love this post bc it's really about the little things, right?
ReplyDeleteThanks Wendy... yep.. it's all about the little things!
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